Glad for saviors

Over the past few weeks, I’ve struggled with several work-related tasks that were assigned to me because the person who’d previously done them was no longer affiliated with the company.

When assigned these tasks, the first objective obviously is to try to secure information that will help me complete this tasks. But a few of them are simply beyond my ken. Today was one such task, when a particular client requested pfx files for his SSL certificate. (Sounds Green to you? Yeah, me too.)

After several attempts to try to figure it out, I shouted for help on Facebook, and one friend helped me through it. We were able to make it happen, and I now have a method to help me replicate it should another request for it come through in the future.

I was very, very grateful for Jakob’s help, and relieved that this was yet another task I was able to knock out of the ballpark. It’s a great feeling.

What a blessing to know we have people who can come to our rescue when we need it. Fewer things remind us of how blessed we are than when friends come to our rescue in times of deep need.

Yay for the ‘Sagip Saka Law’!

Just learned that President Duterte signed the “Sagip Saka Act” into law last month. All I can say is, “Wow.”

The impact of this law is potentially massive, because it provides farmers and fisherman assistance in skills development, wider access to financing in the form of credit grants and crop insurance, and access to improved technologies for research and development.

The big-ticket items here are 1) education/training, 2) government support towards modernisation; and 3) credit guarantees on uncollateralised loans, implying our kababayans won’t necessarily have to give up livelihood or property just to pay back the loans.

It also provides tax incentives and exemptions to encourage assistance for farmers and fisherfolk. YAAAAS.

The law also creates the Farmers and Fisherfolk Enterprise Development Council to ensure the proper implementation of the program. It is tremendously encouraging because these men and women form the backbone of our ability to feed the nation, and we need to sow back–pun intended–into their lives so they can continue to do their great and noble work.

I will give the man credit when it’s due. Great big thanks to President Duterte, to the fine men and women of the Department of Agriculture, and to principal author Sen Kiko Pangilinan. Masigabong palapakan.

Rape is never funny, Mr President

All my life, I’ve worked hard to fine-tune my own brand of comedy. It’s still a work very much in progress: puns, real-life stories, and musical parodies make up the cheap laughs I offer.

But to me, what isn’t funny are jokes aimed to make light of the distress and trauma experienced by others.

Like rape.

If we knew the horror of rape,
how deeply it wounds,
how shamelessly it scars on the outside,
and leaves inner trauma that takes forever to heal,
how it replaces one’s joy with fear or anger,
how it changes one’s life forever,
we would not find rape jokes funny,
nor support those who dare tell them.

We must NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER let the telling of rape jokes become something acceptable.

We must voice our displeasure, for the sake of our mothers, our wives, our sisters, and our daughters, and for that matter, for the sake of any of our fathers, our husbands, our brothers, and our sons, for rape knows no gender and does not discriminate against anyone.

Speak up and do not let our nation’s president, Rodrigo Duterte, or any of his apologists including Salvador Panelo and Oscar Albayalde, brainwash the nation and our nation’s protectors, this graduating batch of the PMA, into normalising rape jokes and undermining the worth and value of our fellow Filipinos.

I don’t care if this is calculated. I don’t care if this plays into his playbook. I don’t care if this is intended to draw our attention away from some other underhanded plan. We cannot let this become our reality, our new normal.

Duterte may be president, but he does not speak for me, and if he does not speak for you as well, I challenge you to say so. Write your congressmen, tell your families, do not be quiet.

We are men and women of the Philippines, the Pearl of the Orient Seas, known for our warm smiles, our hospitality, our integrity, and our love for family. Over and over, this man threatens to ruin the reputation of our proud nation.

And that is not funny.

Step out of your bubble!

The Congress website poll on same-sex marriage is just a poll; it doesn’t influence policy in any shape or form. We’re just faceless voters in an online abyss.

People who want to really make their opinion known on this can contact their congressmen to voice their concerns. That’s what they’re there for, and if you feel passionately about a particular issue, you can try to reach out to their office and schedule time, or write a letter.

If you doubt you’ll get their attention, you can try to post it online; you never know if someone you know knows someone he knows, and somehow you get connected.

I just think that the time to play it safe politically has passed. So many are unhappy with the results of the elections, but few are willing to get out and do the legwork needed to get their chosen leaders elected, or hold the actual elected accountable.

If we want change, we need to also step out of our bubbles and do something… offline. My two cents. No need for a poll on that.

Quick update

The other day, I received an email reminding me that my domain was up for renewal. This is the thirteenth year that I will be renewing this domain.

I realise that it’s been a while since my last blog entry, and I have to tell you that I’m a bit overwhelmed by the immensity of it all.

When I first started the blog, it really began as a journal of sorts. I was connecting to a lot of Christians in the blogosphere, and I was forming online friendships that proved valuable, a few of which continue even to this day.

However, at some point, I shifted that direction, and moved into Christian music reviews. It became easier to produce content, but it also became less personal. Last year, I shifted it yet again to lifestyle (to include recipes and whatnot), and with that shift, came even more pressure because I felt I had to photograph and document everything.

It became less joyful to maintain the blog.

With the advent of social media, it also became easier to produce content and put it up on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, because we could see immediate reactions and results.

How far technology has come, yet how mind-numbingly slow this site has developed. And in the thirteen or so years that the blog has been up, I’ve had two kids, both of whom are now teenagers, and my priorities have shifted. 

I think the reality is, over the past ten years, I was so deeply connected to online channels that the lines between online and offline became blurry. I was in constant pursuit of Likes and Shares. This pursuit of validation, whether it was producing funny parodies, posting puns, or trying to become Instafamous (which I never became, LOL), consumed me.

It took almost a year in another country for God to change my heart and my priorities. I have three lessons that I’ve learned in my time here in Canberra.

Lesson 1 is family is important. In my time here, I’ve learned to appreciate Caths, Nathan, and Nicki even more. We were literally all we had here. I found the less time I spent online, the more time I had to spend with them, and there were so many things we could do together here.

Lesson 2 is friends are important. On my social media accounts, I have almost 5,000 “friends,” and more than 4,000 followers. But most of them are friends of friends of friends, and my blog has been woefully ignored as a result.

Finally, Lesson 3 is the world is beautiful. Yes, Canberra is beautiful, and I honestly would not mind growing old here. But it took me almost a year to realise that there is beauty no matter where I am, and my constant pursuit of Likes and Shares was stopping me from appreciating the beauty of the world around me. The offline. The “real world.”

So, with this post, I just want you to know that 1) I’m alive, 2) I’m living, and 3) I think it’s time to bring the blog back to its original purpose. I’m done with chasing fame; I’m done with the pursuit of “hits.”

I just want to be me, and if you like what you see, you’re welcome to stay. Thank you for reading, thank you for listening, and thank you for being with me all this time.

Here’s to a new season.

Giving a Valentine’s gift? Here, take notes!

In just a week, the world will be celebrating Valentine’s Day. Whether you’re giving gifts–my top love language–or celebrating with a date–quality time, my second-least love language, LOL–there are many opportunities to honour the one you love.

Donut let this opportunity pass you by!

It’s a berry good idea!

I like puns, obviously, and if you’re at a loss for words, Shari’s Berries has produced these printable love notes that you can attach to a gift, or leave as a sweet pick-me-up in the middle of your day.

Check out all the printables here; I’m sure you’ll get a cake out of ’em!

Disclaimer: I have received no remuneration of any kind from Shari’s Berries for posting this. I just thought it’s a lovely and funny thing to share. Cheers!

Pat Barrett, “The Way (New Horizon)”

Housefires lead singer Pat Barrett has released an acoustic version of his beautiful worship ballad, “The Way (New Horizon).”

The song, which was originally done by Housefires, was written by Barrett with Daniel Bashta and Ben Smith. Easy to sing and wonderfully worshipful, it’s a gorgeous song that should be added to many churches’ worship playlists.

Pat Barrett 

Through every battle
Through every heartbreak
Through every circumstance
I believe that You are my fortress
Oh, You are my portion
And You are my hiding place, ohI believe You are
The way, the truth, the life
I believe You are
The way, the truth, the lifeI believe
Through every blessing
Through every promise
Through every breath I take
I believe that You are Provider
Oh, You are Protector
You are the One I love, ohI believe You are
The way, the truth, the life
I believe You are
The way, the truth, the life
I believe You are
Oh, You are
Oh, You areAnd it’s a new horizon and I’m set on You
And You meet me here today with mercies that are new
All my fears and doubts, they can all come too
Because they can’t stay long when I’m here with You
It’s a new horizon and I’m set on You
And You meet me here today with mercies that are new
All my fears and doubts
They can all come too
Because they can’t stay long whenI believe You are
The way, the truth, the life
I believe You are
The way, the truth, the life
I believe You areIt’s a new horizon and I’m set on You
And You meet me here today with mercies that are new
And all my fears and doubts, they can all come too
Because they can’t stay long whenI believe You are
The way, the truth, the life
And I believe You are
The way, the truth, the life
I believe You areSongwriters: